Sometimes my spam is terribly exciting. To quote:

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Sometimes my spam is terribly exciting. To quote:

Supreme Willerson!
Im going to do you right now, honey. Your pussy. or your ass.?
malfunction suntanned nefarious unreadable harrows denture temblor gerontological dropkick pistol-whip legendary coaxer bray humpbacked
thrilling pled velar axially firm hawkish officiousness inscrutably= swishes obsess vertices family purview unblenched
infighting ineluctable sledgehammer reunifying collusive acronym stranger intermingle punchier webbed tundra refreshingly colored hydrostatic
ungrammatical shill inpatients healer aerobic regrettable regularizes ephebic optometrists parentheses sacramental devoutness phantasmagoria bailiwick
intercepts welded particularize twanging luge bedfellows theorizes function nibbler boondocks hikers prig idealistically beholders

fuckyeahpolyamory
Polyamory is a way that heterosexual men can “hedge”, or invest, in various women, to the degree that they want to, and benefit from the returns until the investment is no longer worthwhile. There are many things that can make the investment become less worthwhile -when women start to ask for something in return, or demand more emotional, social, or sexual accountability, or transparency, or care activity. The polyamorous hedge then becomes a shield against accountability, and a guarantee that there is other attention to exploit without having to really offer anything back. Should the return gain fail on one relationship, or should you be asked to be accountable for your actions with that woman, or invest more by caring more, you have created other relationships to fall back on and reap gains from. Hedging is utterly objectifying, exploitative, and violent.

Polyamory as a Reserve Army of Care Labor

(via yoursocialconstructsareshowing)

SO RIGHT ON.

I’m kind of ambivalent about the het framing, because guess what we all internalize the patriarchy (even femmes like me), but gawd I love this post and it’s utterly pragmatic realness. All the kink and poly books I read never told it as real and always presented multiple partnerships as some utopian, we’re-so-evolved enlightened liberal woo, and are utterly dismissive of any kind of critiques. 

Be wary of those that use polyamory as a shield for their shittiness, because they’re out there darlings and there are a lot of them.

todf
Living in a city, it’s so easy to experience paranoia and have it manifest in your work - like Tricky, or Mark Stewart. You’re dealing with control systems and if you tackle them in any way, confront them in your work the same way William Burroughs did, it’s such a fine line you can’t walk it. It’ll cut into you. If you deal with those things you will become emeshed in them. If you explore paranoia you will become paranoid. Myself, I’m really trying to get rid of that. Not to say it isn’t happening everywhere all the time. I find it very unhealthy to focus on it these days.
John Balance, to David Keenan, The Wire (via todf)
I received a beautiful anonymous letter in the mail today. <3 Just as I was complaining to Janey that no one ever sent me anything good, at least not as good as the spread babe selfies that his readers send him.
Boy was I wrong. Fave line: I’m masturbating in your face, eyes wide with the terror of death and the inevitable void that lays beyond. <3 <3 <3
Oh mystery letter sender! I know your game and I will win it!

I received a beautiful anonymous letter in the mail today. <3 Just as I was complaining to Janey that no one ever sent me anything good, at least not as good as the spread babe selfies that his readers send him.

Boy was I wrong. Fave line: I’m masturbating in your face, eyes wide with the terror of death and the inevitable void that lays beyond. <3 <3 <3

Oh mystery letter sender! I know your game and I will win it!

fuckyeahvintageillustration

fuckyeahvintageillustration:

'Les liaisons dangereuses/ Dangerous Liaisons' by Choderlos de Laclos, illustrated by George Barbier. Published 1934 by Le Vasseur et Cie, Paris.

Description:  A French epistolary novel about the Marquise de Merteuil and the Vicomte de Valmont, two rivals (and ex-lovers) who use seduction as a weapon to humiliate and degrade others, while enjoying their cruel games and boasting about their manipulative talents.

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